And...I don't know, compared to what's going on with Jeva, it just doesn't seem right that I should be freaking out so much over a dumb recital >.>
...*calmly takes the mallet from you and--BONK*
Sweetie...I've said this several times. My problems are mine and yours and yours. Even if I'm having a little trouble myself, it'll all get worked out eventually--and the same for you! You really, really shouldn't compare these sort of issues you're going through with the issues I'm having.
1) They're in a completely different category of problem--yours is school and almost work-related; mine is financial matters that are completely out of my hands. Completely different matters there but one is not worse than the other. They're different kinds of stress...it'd be like comparing apples to oranges!
and...
2) It's not a dumb recital. This is a big thing for your grade and for your graduating and becoming a student-teacher, right? So don't say it's not that big of a deal when it probably is. And don't undermind your own stress and difficulties. If you've been in tears over it--it's a very big deal. Just...don't say it's not, okay? Because it is.
So yeah...just...don't compare yourself and your problems with other's. It's not a wise thing to do. And don't undermind your problems and constantly stuff them away. That's a good way to make the glass jar you stuff them away in break under the pressure--and cleaning up broken glass is not fun, right?
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Date: 2006-11-07 05:57 pm (UTC)...*calmly takes the mallet from you and--BONK*
Sweetie...I've said this several times. My problems are mine and yours and yours. Even if I'm having a little trouble myself, it'll all get worked out eventually--and the same for you! You really, really shouldn't compare these sort of issues you're going through with the issues I'm having.
1) They're in a completely different category of problem--yours is school and almost work-related; mine is financial matters that are completely out of my hands. Completely different matters there but one is not worse than the other. They're different kinds of stress...it'd be like comparing apples to oranges!
and...
2) It's not a dumb recital. This is a big thing for your grade and for your graduating and becoming a student-teacher, right? So don't say it's not that big of a deal when it probably is. And don't undermind your own stress and difficulties. If you've been in tears over it--it's a very big deal. Just...don't say it's not, okay? Because it is.
So yeah...just...don't compare yourself and your problems with other's. It's not a wise thing to do. And don't undermind your problems and constantly stuff them away. That's a good way to make the glass jar you stuff them away in break under the pressure--and cleaning up broken glass is not fun, right?
*hugs*